Be the Parent You Want to Be
Shape Your Legacy Coaching
If you have landed on this page,
there is a good likelihood that:
You are worried about the wellbeing of your children and are not sure what to do
You are longing for a more open and rich connection with your teen
You want your children to have a different experience than you had growing up
You carry guilt and/or shame around not being the parent you want to be
You want to find more ease and joy in parenting
If any of these are true for you, we want you to know three things:
1. You are not alone.
2. You can shift things.
3. We can help.
If you are ready to be the change that creates a more easeful,
joyful and connected family,
Shape Your Legacy Coaching is made for you.
Book a Free Coaching Session
Shape Your Legacy Coaching
will allow you to:
Create more connection, authenticity and ease
Release family patterns that you don’t want to pass on and make new choices.
Live with more self acceptance, compassion and love.
Become the change you want to be through customized practices and support.
You get to be the agent of change that will create positive ripples for generations.
See how Shape Your Legacy Coaching can transform your family.
Book a Free Coaching Session and Be the Agent of Change for Your Family
What Our Clients Say
Elisa
When I first came to Michael, I had no idea how to be the parent I wanted to be for my three children. It’s hard to believe how much has changed in just a few months. Friends have noticed my newfound calm and confidence, and my work with Michael has transformed not only my relationship with my kids but also with my parents, husband, and friends. There’s an ease in these relationships now that wasn’t there before, and I attribute this entirely to my coaching experience with Michael. If you’re thinking about working with him, do it. It changed my life.
Meagan
I started working with Michael because I felt stuck and knew I could do better for my son. In just a few weeks, I experienced a level of healing that I hadn't found in years of therapy. In doing this work on myself, I can show up for my son with more ease, peace and stability, and the changes I have seen in him and our relationship have been remarkable. He’s more open, sharing his thoughts and ideas with me like never before. And that feels great. If you’re seeking a deeper, more connected relationship with your child, I can't recommend this work more highly.
Sandra J
I knew I was not thriving as a parent and I wasn't sure why. Through my work with Michael, I uncovered what needed attention and healing—and healed it. This gave me the freedom to be fully present as a parent, while also becoming more vibrant and happy as a person. The best part is how I saw these changes positively reflected in my children. Despite all of the personal work I have done before, the growth I experienced was both profound and humbling. I highly recommend Michael's coaching to any parent—or anyone—seeking inner peace and happiness.
Elizabeth
Michael moves mountains. Years in therapy had helped me gain clarity on a painful family dynamic, but somehow I couldn’t get past the stories and tension the trauma had left. It was affecting my family and weighing me down with the huge fear that I would pass this pain on to my daughter. In a remarkably short amount of time, through Michael’s coaching I found closure and healing, which brought me incredible peace and freedom. Michael has a true gift to the world as a coach and a guide, and I am forever grateful.
Bibi
I had lived my whole life feeling like I was responsible for everything. It was a burden that I knew I never wanted my kids to carry, but could tell I was passing it down. In a short time working with Michael, I was able to finally understand and let go of the that dynamic. This coaching was completely revelatory because I didn't think I could feel so much more free and alive. Doing this work was the greatest gift I could give to myself, my children and my husband.
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I’m passionate about helping parents create the ease, joy, and connection they desire in their families. Every human being longs to feel seen, safe, and loved. When we can’t fully experience these, both we and our relationships suffer. At the core of these struggles are often old, ingrained patterns of thinking and relating. These patterns don’t just affect us—they shape our interactions with our partners and children as well.
The challenge is that these patterns are like icebergs: most of what influences us lies beneath the surface of our awareness. If you have a child who is struggling, your own habitual responses are likely contributing to the dynamic. But this isn’t about blame—it’s part of the universal experience of parenting. I help parents uncover and reshape these underlying patterns, creating more ease, freedom, and connection for both themselves and their children.
This is, I believe, the most profound and meaningful work a parent can do. The gifts it offers don’t just benefit you—they will ripple through generations, shaping the lives of your descendants and everyone they touch.
Shape Your Legacy Coaching was born out of my own journey to break free from inherited patterns. It’s a deeply personal approach, curated from nearly two decades of learning and training. I blend the latest scientific discoveries about the body and mind with ancient wisdom, somatic training, mindfulness, and spiritual practices. The process is efficient, transformative, and life-changing—it’s exactly what I wish had been available to me when I began my own parenting journey.
I’d love to support you and your family in discovering what is truly possible.
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Michael Danzansky is a father, teacher, coach, and leader dedicated to helping parents and caregivers break free from inherited family patterns, allowing them to live with greater clarity, love, joy, and presence. He combines practical tools with mindfulness, somatics, indigenous perspectives, mysticism, east coast sensibility and spirituality to create a truly unique coaching experience.
With over 17 years of experience as a life coach and teacher of mindfulness, yoga, philosophy, and spiritual studies, Michael has developed an approach that is both playful and transformative, delivering lasting change. His diverse credentials include a Master’s Degree in Philosophy, Cosmology, and Consciousness from the California Institute of Integral Studies, a Somatic Coaching certification from the Strozzi Institute, and a Mindfulness Instructor certification from the Mindfulness Training Institute. Additionally, he has completed over 500 hours of yogic philosophy, posture, and methodology training. He is has also trained in RIM (Reimagining Images in Memory) therapeutic training, along with advanced training in Family Constellation therapy, and 4 years of nature based soul work with the Animus Institute. He also spent two years studying indigenous wisdom with Dagra elder Malidoma Somé.
Michael’s love for expanding consciousness, nature and people is matched only by his greatest joy—spending time with his teenage son.